learning the hard way
Up late thinking about stuff sometimes I feel bad for my thoughts, like I shouldnt be having them… like its wrong for me to criticize him like this but I have to accept how I feel and what my thoughts are that is how I can be true to myself I was taught to doubt myself perhaps that is a clue into the way he was treated by his parents and he didnt know any better was so steeped in it, he couldnt see any way out didnt even know he was stuck I saw so much about him literally since I was born I saw him an innocent childs perspective and children are so smart and perceptive i saw him I loved him and I felt his love until he withdrew and thats what his dad did withdrew so he did it to me did he think about that? did he realize what he was doing? did he know he was repeating patterns? did he want to be better? is that why they forced visitation? whats better— being abandoned by your father or having a father that splits your life in two? he didnt care how it made me feel he just had to pr